The Skills Medical Training Forgot to Teach You

You get the title first.

Medical director. Department chair. Program director.

The promotion feels like validation for years of clinical excellence and hard work.

Then you sit in the role.

Suddenly you are negotiating with administrators over FTE allocations you do not control.

You are mediating conflicts between faculty who outrank you in seniority.

You are explaining to a burned-out colleague why they cannot reduce their clinical load this quarter.

You are presenting budgets to people who speak a language you never learned in medical school.

This is not a competency gap.

It is a training gap.

A national survey of physician leaders in U.S. hospitals, published this month in NEJM Catalyst, confirms what most of you already suspect.

To read the study, click here

Physician leaders face a predictable set of challenges: juggling clinical and administrative responsibilities, staffing shortages, budget constraints, broken communication between departments, and the need to plan for systems that change faster than their strategic plans.

But here is the finding that matters.

When asked what skills are most important for the job, physician leaders did not name clinical credentials.

They did not name MBA coursework.

They did not name board certifications or publication records.

They named emotional intelligence and communication.

I was a program director for both a residency and a fellowship program.

I remember the transition clearly. I had spent years becoming an expert in a narrow clinical field. I knew how to diagnose, treat, and teach at the bedside.

What I did not know was how to have a difficult conversation with a faculty member whose behavior was destabilizing the rotation.

I did not know how to advocate for resources when the hospital's priorities had shifted away from education.

I did not know how to lead a team meeting without it becoming a complaint session or a turf war.

No one had taught me those skills.

Not because my training was bad.

Because medical training was never designed to teach them.

Medical education selects for and rewards individual technical excellence.

It trains you to solve problems under pressure, to absorb enormous amounts of information, and to make decisions with incomplete data.

Those are real strengths.

But leadership is not an individual sport.

It is relational, ambiguous, and slow.

It requires tolerating conflict without rushing to fix it.

It requires influencing people who do not report to you and negotiating with people who do not share your incentives.

The NEJM survey found that physician leaders acquire these skills primarily through on-the-job experience, mentorship, and peer networks.

That sounds reasonable until you notice the problem.

On-the-job experience means making mistakes with real consequences.

Mentorship means finding someone who has navigated the same transition and has time to guide you.

Peer networks mean building relationships outside your institution when your schedule already does not allow for relationships inside it.

The system promotes physicians into leadership roles and then leaves them to figure it out on their own.

That is not a personal failing on your part if you have struggled.

It is a structural failure that individual physicians continue to pay for.

If you are already in a leadership role, you probably know the feeling.

The work expands to fill every hour you give it.

The clinical responsibilities do not shrink to make room for the administrative ones.

Over time, you absorb more and more until you are functioning as a buffer between your team and the institution above you.

That is not sustainable, and it is not leadership. It is damage control.

If you are considering a leadership role, you have an advantage.

You can enter with clearer expectations.

You can build your supports before you need them. You can find a coach or mentor who has made the same transition and can warn you about the traps that are invisible from the outside.

Either way, the path forward is the same.

Recognize that the skills that got you the title are not the skills that will let you keep it. Find people who have walked the same road.

Build a network outside your institution, so you have perspective when your own system goes blind to its own dysfunction.

And get structured support before you are so depleted that every decision becomes reactive.

Physician leadership is essential to health care.

But we will keep losing good physicians from these roles until we stop pretending that clinical excellence alone qualifies someone to lead.

The physicians who thrive are the ones who see the gap early and fill it intentionally.

If you have been thinking about stepping into a leadership position, or if you are already there and wondering why it feels harder than it should, that is worth a conversation.

Reach out to me any time for a chat.

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Heath A. Jolliff, DO, ACC

Physician Executive Coach | Physician Coaching Solutions, LLC.

Dr. Jolliff is a physician executive coach who specializes in helping physician leaders navigate organizational change, clinical culture, and the leadership decisions that determine whether transformation sticks. He works with clinicians and health system executives across the country.